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About Face
By Bill Adams a Gainesville Today Health editor
He
smoked his first Marlboro when he was 14 "just to be like the
other kids", but after smoking his last one about a month ago,
now all Marion Thornton wants is "just to have a face like
everyone else. "Not that he wants to be handsome. Not that
he wants to look any younger than his 60 years. He just wants to
get back the lips and cheek and nose that cancer has virtually eaten
away during the past eight years.
It's
not that I want people to stop staring at me," contends the
Bradford County heavy equipment operator. "It's just that I
want people to stop looking away when they see my face. I'm the
first to tell you that I don't like to see myself in the mirror
every morning. In fact, when I did look in there sometimes I just
hoped it would be the last day I would ever wake up."
Today, however-thanks to doctors with big hearts as big as
their skills and a hospital that cared-Marion Thornton
looks forward to looking into that morning mirror to see the progress
being made in the total reconstruction of a face that had been described
as "grotesque."
That same word might be used to describe his life for nearly a decade.
Yes,
it was back in 1992 that the heavy equipment operator for Jacksonville's
WPC Industrial Contractors first noticed a "cold sore"
on his lower lip. He put some salve on it and waited for it to go
away.
It didn 't.
After four years, the little cold sore made a dramatic trek across
his entire lower lip. The salve didn't help, and neither did the
major hospital to which he finally turned for help. "They took
one look at me and wanted $1,800 up front," remembers Thornton.
"I was working, but I hadn't been with the company long enough
to have health insurance. I didn't have the money either."
He also didn't have the will to live through what they told him
would have to be done and how he would look after the work was completed.
He was told that all his teeth would be pulled, his lymph nodes
would be removed, and his left jawbone would be extracted. He would
look like, he was told, "a gargoyle."
So, after learning that he would lose most of his face, Marion
Thornton gave up and admits to accepting his impending death.
It wasn 't that easy.
He lived.
And everything that the first hospital had predicted came true
with help from the malignancy that obviously was the result of smoking
all those Marlboros the first day of this new century Marion Thornton
had lost most of his face, and he "wanted to die."
Jut a friend he hadn't seen for 20 ears came to a family dinner
and saw beyond what seemed to be a Halloween mask he was wearing
that evening.
Wanda Davis saw what she remembered all those years; a tender-hearted,
loving man who always cared for others more than himselfand
now even dramatically more so.
"I had a doctor that had saved my leg from cancer," relied
Ms. Davis. "I said, 'Marion, if anybody on earth can help you
its Charles Graper."
It took her almost until the end of February before she could talk
her chain-smoking friend into going to the Graper Facial Institute
and talking to Charles Graper, now internationally known for his
innovative reconstructive and cosmetic surgical skills.
Dr Graper, past president of the Florida Academy of Cosmetic Surgery
and a member of the faculty of the University of Miami School of
Medicine, took one look at Marion Thornton and quietly observed,
"I don't think there's anything I can do for you." Then,
he took another look and remarked, "Well, maybe there is."
On
March 5, after smoking yet another Marlboro on the way to North
Florida Regional Hospita] in Gainesville, Marion Thornton underwent
16 hours of surgery. Dr. Graper removed all of the involved tissue
around the cancer, which had already destroyed Thornton's upper
and lower lips and nose. Then, he began "Stage I" of the
reconstruction of the lips and nose areas, removed all of the affected
teeth and lymph nodes and surgically created an airway.
After being discharged from the hospital and "many Tylenols
and no Marlboros," Mr. Thornton began receiving reconstruction
procedures that would involve replacement of his teeth and the creation
of his nose and lips.
Today, after hearing his story and seeing his before and after
pictures, one of the first questions most people ask is "Who
did it?"
Eventually, the question "Who paid for it?" pops up.
Well, the one who did it was Dr. Charles Graper with help from
Dr. Schilling, oncologist; and Dr. Aldo Seager, anesthesiologist.
To find out who paid for it, ask Tony Campo. He's the director
of "We Care Physician Referral Network", a part of the
Alachua County Medical Association.
"We afford free care to persons who are not eligible for public
assistance, but are still indigent and uninsured," explains
Campo, whose networkjust in the past year-has given
$2.7 million in medical assistance despite the fact the group
administratively operates on a $149,000 annual budget, "All
area hospitals, ancillary facilities, labs, and about 90 percent
of all our 600 local doctors participate."
And, of all the hundreds of people the "We Care" venture
has helped over the ten years it has been operating, it is unlikely
that any one of them is more appreciative than Marion Thornton.
If you need proof of that, you just need to see him look into a
mirror these days.
He's the one smiling
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